Awards

The Mystery Blogger Award

Thank you to Audra at Audras Book Blabbing for the nomination, this honestly means so much ❤

What is the Mystery Blogger Award?

“The Mystery Blogger is an award for amazing bloggers with ingenious posts. Their blog not only captivates; it inspires and motivates. They are one of the best out there, and they deserve every recognition they get. This award is also for bloggers who find fun and inspiration in blogging; and they do it with so much love and passion”.

Rules:

  • Put the award logo/image on your blog
  • List the rules.
  • Thank whoever nominated you and provide a link to their blog.
  • Mention the creator of the award (Okoto Enigma)
  • List three facts about yourself and answer the questions given by the person who tagged you.
  • Nominate up to 20 people.
  • Ask your nominees any 5 questions of your choice.
  • Share a link to your best post(s)

Three Facts About Me:

  • I was born with a rare condition called Craniosynostosis, where the soft spots in my skull closed up too quickly and it came a weird shape. I had to have my skull reconstructed the day after my 1st birthday – otherwise I would have ended up looking like E.T, literally.
  • I have a slight phobia of talking on the phone, I will if I HAVE to, but it gives me the worst anxiety.
  • I have been a Pole Dancer for 2 years and an Aerialist for 1 🙂

My Top Posts:

I listed the posts I loved writing rather than the ones that had the most engagement:

Questions:

1. If you had to be stuck in the same day for the rest of your life, which day from last week would you choose?

Good question! I would have to choose Sunday as me and my partner went to the cinema to see The Mortal Engines (good film!) then sat in my car eating Tesco sandwiches and talking about the future. I don’t know, just days like this I absolutely love.

2. What’s one major thing you’re thankful for?

It sounds like a cliche obvious answer, but I am so thankful for my family. They have all helped me out in some very hard times, I really don’t know what I’d do without them.

3. What is your favourite form of social media?

Definitely Instagram. I know a lot of the time it’s fake but it’s a great way to interact with people that have similar hobbies as you.

4. Do you watch much television?

I am a self confessed TV addict! I constantly have the TV on, even if I’m doing other things, I think I just like background noise haha

5. Who is someone you look up to?

I don’t really have one person I 100% look up to, but one person that I appreciate so much for her work with body positivity and calling out diet culture is Jameela Jamil 🙂

My Nominations:

Questions for You:

  1. What’s your favourite music artist?
  2. If you could change one thing in the world, what would it be?
  3. Name one thing that has changed your life for the better?
  4. What is the best place you’ve ever visited?
  5. Who’s your favourite Disney character and why?

 

Thanks for reading and I hope you enjoy writing out this award as much as I did!

xox

Thank you to Audra at Audras Book Blabbing for the nomination, this honestly means so much ❤ What is the Mystery Blogger Award? “The Mystery Blogger is an award for amazing bloggers with ingenious posts. Their blog not only captivates; it inspires and motivates. They are one of the best out there, and they deserve every… Continue reading The Mystery Blogger Award

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Film, Music

My Favourite Underrated Disney Songs

I’ve watched a few Ms Mojo Youtube videos lately (don’t judge me, I was bored in the bath), and one that popped up was ‘Top 10 Underrated Disney Songs‘, although a few of my favourite Disney songs appeared on that list, it had me thinking about all the other songs I love but never get the recognition they deserve *cough* the whole Tarzan soundtrack *cough*. So here’s my list of my favourite and underrated Disney songs:

Lion King II, Simba’s Pride – We Are One:

Unpopular opinion.. please don’t kill me.. Lion King II is the best film of the three films. It’s so good that I couldn’t pick just one song. I was only four when this film was released but I remember getting up early most weekends to watch it on video at my grandparent’s house with my cousin. We Are One is such a beautiful song, it is one I will show my future children so they can understand that love and acceptance have no boundaries. It also explains how the circle of life works in a fun and catchy way.

If there’s so much I must be, can I still just be me, the way I am?”

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Lion King II, Simba’s Pride – My Lullaby:

It upsets me that barely anyone knows this song exists, it’s one of the most dramatic and macabre songs in the Disney universe. My Lullaby is Zira singing to baby Kouvu while he sleeps about her plot for him to kill Simba and how proud it would make her if he would become King.

“Trouble is, I know it’s petty but I hate to let them live”

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The Hunchback of Notre Dame – God Help the Outcasts:

Esmeralda has always, and forever will be, my favourite non-princess female character. I used to dress up as her as a kid and I also think her relationship with her pet goat Jolly made me love goats. The biggest reason I loved her was her passion and drive to save her people, there is nothing more amazing than a passionate person. God Help the Outcasts was Esmeralda’s plea to God to save her fellow Roma Gypsy and other outcasts from the racist hands of Judge Claude Frollo.

“I ask for nothing, I can get by. But I know so many less lucky than I”

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Tarzan – Strangers Like Me:

In my opinion, Tarzan has the best soundtrack of most Disney films. Legendary Phil Collins wrote and provided vocals for all the songs on the soundtrack. This song is about Tarzan’s growing fascination with Jane, Professor Porter, Clayton and the unknown Human world. In the film this song is played during one of my favourite Disney scenes ever, where Tarzan takes Jane up to the tree canopies to see the Parrots that keep flying away from her and it’s the moment that us as the viewers see their friendship turn to something more -ugly cries-.

“Beyond the trees, above the clouds, I see before me a new horizon”

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Tangled – When Will My Life Begin:

Tangled has one of the best soundtracks of CGI based animated Disney films (yes, even better than Frozen). But due to Frozen coming out a few years after, Tangled really didn’t get the recognition it deserves. When Will My Life Begin is the opening song to Tangled, it goes through the daily routine of our heroine Rapunzel 24 hours before her 18th birthday. This song follows a similar theme to Belle from Beauty & the Beast where the protagonist wishes for a way out of their current life to something more exciting.

“Stuck in the same place I’ve always been. And I’ll keep wonderin’ and wonderin’
And wonderin’ and wonderin’… when will my life begin?”

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Beauty & The Beast – Belle:

Similar to When Will My Life Begin from Tangled, Belle is one of the opening songs. I find this song so interesting as it involves all the other village folk singing their thoughts on Belle and her father while Belle has her head stuck in a book, seemingly oblivious to everyone talking about her.

“Look there she goes, that girl is strange, no question”

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Hercules – I Won’t Say (I’m in Love):

I honestly think Hercules is my favourite Disney film, I have been obsessed with it since I was old enough to understand the basics of Greek Mythology. I Won’t Say (I’m In Love) is so different from other lovey dovey Disney songs as it is basically a parody of traditional romantic songs and it shows how soft our usually strong willed Heroine Meg really is. The gospel-styled backing vocals of the sassy Muses really add a whole new level to this song too.

“My head is screaming ‘get a grip girl’, unless you’re dying to cry your heart out”

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Brother Bear – On My Way:

Another soundtrack composed by Phil Collins, maybe I’m just biased and love what Phil Collins brings to Disney songs. I only watched Brother Bear for the first time last year, feel silly for missing out on such a lovely but sad film all these years. On My Way was the one song that really stood out to me, the lyrics can be interpreted as being about going on adventures with new friends.

“And the stories that we tell will make you smile, oh it really lifts my heart”

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The Nightmare Before Christmas – Kidnap the Sandy Claws:

The Nightmare Before Christmas is my favourite film ever, it ignited a deep love of stop motion animation and a fascination with all things macabre. Kidnap the Sandy Claws isn’t as well recognised as ‘This is Halloween’ or ‘What’s This?” but is still a huge hit , even the band Korn made a cover of this song for Nightmare Revisited.

“We’re his little henchmen and we take our job with pride. We do our best to please him and stay on his good side”

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Thanks for reading! What is your favourite underrated Disney song?

xox

 

I've watched a few Ms Mojo Youtube videos lately (don't judge me, I was bored in the bath), and one that popped up was 'Top 10 Underrated Disney Songs', although a few of my favourite Disney songs appeared on that list, it had me thinking about all the other songs I love but never get… Continue reading My Favourite Underrated Disney Songs

Life

New Year Same Me.. But Better

With a new year comes the unavoidable splurge of New Year’s resolutions, sigh. Millions of us posting on social media about how this will be the year we will be as skinny and sexy as a Victoria Secrets model, how we will become millionaires, find a partner worthy of being a love interest in a Romantic Comedy etc etc. With the added pressure of the media, fitness and beauty industries preying on our insecurities and #newyearnewme being a trending hashtag, it’s easy to fall in to setting ourselves up for failure with vapid resolutions.

So, this year instead of a list as long as my arm with everything I need to change about myself and my life, I’m going to focus on being a better person all around and being happy. I’ll still be me, the same dorky girl who trips over everything and runs away from flapping pigeons, but I’ll be better – or at least try to be better. As we should all try to be better people and do better things.

Here’s a few points on what I’d like to focus on, not just for this year, but furthermore – a lifestyle change if you will:

Start healing from the past:

I’m the worst for having random flashbacks to bad times in my life, whether that be the not so perfect way of treating someone I used to know, still holding on to some guilt and hurt from previous relationships and friendships, to not forgiving people for what they did/said to me from year’s ago etc. It’s time to move on and focus on my life now.

Get some confidence, girl:

My no.1 pet peeve of myself is my lack of confidence, I wish I didn’t get anxious in certain situations or not believe I’m not good enough. I don’t know where this lack of confidence came from, but I always remember it being there, I really want to work on this as I have some wonderful opportunities coming up that I don’t want to be overshadowed.

Stop trusting everyone:

You really can’t trust everyone, even people you think are closest to you. I really need to work on not telling everyone my life story, keep some things private, as some people can and will use this information against me. Learn to vent in a safe space rather than to the nearest person available.

Controlling emotions:

I’m sensitive, extremely and annoyingly sensitive. Little things get to me that probably wouldn’t bother other people, but these niggly things eat me up until I burst. Sometimes these little things make me so sad that it affects every part of my life or I get so angry but with nowhere for these emotions to channel in to… and that needs to stop. If that means going to counselling or the doctors, I’m willing to put the time and effort in now.

Make an effort to do things that will make me happy:

I’ve missed out many times on classes, seeing friends or opportunities that I would love to do because of stress, being tired, or being generally lazy. I want to make an effort to see friends that I rarely see, even if that means going out for a drink after work, or taking up an extra class in Pole or Aerial even if I’m tired.

This is by no means a resolution list, I will work on these points above for the rest of my life. It will be a long and often tiring ride, but it will be worth it in the long run. So here’s to putting #newyearnewme in the bin and introducing #newyearsamemebutbetter (new year same me, but better).

Do you have a lifestyle change rather than a resolution?

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New Year’s eve with the greatest.. and trusty beer pong

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With a new year comes the unavoidable splurge of New Year’s resolutions, sigh. Millions of us posting on social media about how this will be the year we will be as skinny and sexy as a Victoria Secrets model, how we will become millionaires, find a partner worthy of being a love interest in a… Continue reading New Year Same Me.. But Better

Books

Goodreads 2018 Reading Challenge

First things first, I hope you all had a great Christmas filled with fun, laughter and a few food comas. Thanks for coming back to carry on this blogging adventure with me 🙂

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Can always count on Goodreads for some moral support 

Another year has passed and another Goodreads Reading Challenge completed! This was my 2nd challenge that I have participated in and by far my favourite. I ended up reading 45 books in total and also half read some self help books that I will finish this year. This post will be a tad different from last year as I have been doing a reviews through out the year, so instead of reviews of my favourite books I just want to have a good chat about certain books throughout the year, my favoruites and the ones to avoid. Here’s some links to my previous Goodreads Challenge and the reviews through out the year: Goodreads Reading Challenge 2017, Review 1, Review 2, Review 3. Unfortunately, I didn’t get around to writing a Review 4 for last year but I will include that in the first review for this year.

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What a year! 10 more books than last year were read and around 2000 more pages. This year was the year for reading books I’ve put off for ages and for finding books that have changed my life. I finally got round to reading Anne Frank’s Diary, One and A Court of Thorns and Roses, they were all books I didn’t think I’d enjoy but ended up all being really high rated. Titles like Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine, Warcross, The Hate U Give, Nina is Not Ok and the Court of Thorns and Roses series are all being added to my favourite books of all time.

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A Court of Thorns and Roses and A Court of Mist and Fury made me so annoyed at myself for not giving these titles a go beforehand. I thought this series would be another YA fantasy story where the girl falls in love with the handsome boy and they live happily ever after.. I was so wrong. Although the protagonist Fayre does fall in love with the fairy High Lord Tamlin, all was not as it seemed and I was hooked from the first page. I read Anne Frank – The Diary of a Young Girl right below jetting off to Amsterdam and it honestly made the trip 100% better. Reading how profound Anne’s mind was, then stepping in to the exact location where she wrote all her thoughts down was mind blowing.. and made me a tad emotional, haha.

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The first set of books read throughout the year didn’t really enthral me until I started to read Scythe by Neal Shusterman. Scythe was everything I was looking for in a dystopian future novel and the sequel Thunderhead was just as good, maybe even better. It was just a shame that the third book in the series isn’t out until some time this year and I have forgot some of the characters in the first two titles. Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson was another book that I won’t be forgetting about for a long time.

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This quarter for reading was a weird one, I either loved them or was very indifferent towards each title. I loved all the Ellen Hopkins titles and discovered a love for stories written in verses, This is Going to Hurt made me laugh so hard a cried and Misfit by Model and activist Charli Howard was a beautiful read. However Junk, See How They Lie and My Favourite Manson Girl really didn’t do it for me.

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The first book I read in this quarter was I Am Thunder, which was a sensational read about Racism and Terrorism and the consequences of both. This book set such a high standard for the rest of the titles I read and I was not disappointed. Finally I caught up with the hype and read The Girl on the Train, I was hooked from the start and it gave me some confidence to start reading thrillers. Seed was a fantastic novel about life in an American cult and Nina is not Ok was utterly funny, heartbreaking and amazing all in one. I wasn’t 100% about Leah on the Offbeat and Beautiful Creatures, they were both great in their own way but I guess the fact I read some amazing titles before these didn’t help their case.

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This section was probably my favourite of all the others, I absolutely loved 6 out of 9 of these titles. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine really shone the brightest of all the others, with it’s colourful characters and heartbreaking plot. The Hate U Give, Hate List and All the Beautiful Strangers were close runner-ups, each with complex themes, unforgettable characters and a plot that will suck you in. Although Little Fires Everywhere wasn’t one of my favourites it was still a great title, whereas Skinny and Uglies were the titles I wish I never bothered with. They could have had a great plot but the writing and world building really let them down.

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I didn’t read as many titles in this last section as I was trying not to buy any books before Christmas so I was only reading what I already owned. One was a title I put off reading for a long time as I didn’t think the plot would be as gripping as it was a YA novel, although the ending bothered me as some plot points weren’t explained, it was a great title about sisterly love, independence and courage. Warcross had been on my ‘To Read List’ for a while and I’m so glad I ended up reading it, I will be reading the sequel Wildcard in the near future. Ending the year on a high was the first two books of A Court of Thorns and Roses series, which I put off reading for around 8 months, silly me. I was blown away by this series, the first in the series was amazing but the second, A Court of Mist and Fury was mind blowing and one I could not put down. ACOMAF isn’t shown in the picture above as I stupidly forgot to mark it as read when I finished it on Boxing Day, doh!

In other news, I finally got a Kindle, so it will be 10x easier for me to read everywhere now, so hopefully I can up my reading goal again this year.

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Bought this cute, constellation case from Amazon

Really can’t wait to see what stories are in store for this year, I’ll see you all at the next review instalment! In the mean time, what was the best and worst books you’ve read in 2018?

xox

First things first, I hope you all had a great Christmas filled with fun, laughter and a few food comas. Thanks for coming back to carry on this blogging adventure with me 🙂 Another year has passed and another Goodreads Reading Challenge completed! This was my 2nd challenge that I have participated in and by… Continue reading Goodreads 2018 Reading Challenge

Life

Thank you 2018

Before delving into this post, can someone please explain to me why every year goes by faster and faster? I swear it was only 5 mins ago that I was celebrating my 24th in February, now it’s only two months until my 25th… and queue my quarter life crisis. It’s currently Christmas Eve and I’m sat at work counting down the seconds until 12 so I can start being festive. I’m not one for New Year’s Resolutions, so to get into the Christmas spirit I thought I’d run through the life lessons I have experienced this year.

Not everyone in your life is meant to be there:

We go through life thinking that everyone who is residing in our lives have a right to be there, no matter how taxing their presence is. This has been a big lesson this year, cutting out people from your life is always hard and it takes time to heal from it.. but it gets easier and life goes on!

You have to put the time in to work on yourself:

I for one sit and moan about how I look and feel, without really putting any effort in to change that. All the way back in May (again, where the f has this year gone?!), I started going to Bootcamp classes and I feel 10x better than I did before. My strength has improved, my pole and aerial classes have become enjoyable rather than debilitating and my new improved mood is getting me through the Winter blues. It takes time and a tonne of effort to improve yourself, but it’s so worth it. You can read my post about my bootcamp classes HERE.

Being an adult is scary but it will be an amazing adventure:

I’m 25 in February which is bonkers for me as I still feel mentally 18 sometimes. Me and my partner have been toying with the idea of moving out next year and renting a flat together before saving up for the big, scary mortgage.. and I’m not going to lie, I am a mix of absolutely petrified and so damn excited. It’s scary as it could either make or break us as a couple, but that’s what adulthood is about.. it’s about taking risks and learning from these risks. I’m also not so secretly excited to be able to decorate my place how I want it – with loads of pole and nerdy stuff.

You don’t need to have experienced everything before your mid-twenties:

This is something I have to forever tell myself when I’m feeling down, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO HAVE DONE EVERYTHING BEFORE THE AGE OF 25. It’s so easy with social media to feel like the lack of exotic holidays or not being anywhere close to saving for a whole house (I could probably realistically buy a bedroom maybe), when it seems everyone online has got it all. I didn’t really get my life started until I was 23, I sort of feel like those first 5 years of adulthood were wasted, but in reality I was just experiencing life differently to others. We are on this earth for roughly 75-90 years on average, there is no perfect time to experience everything you want to experience.

Work is not your life, go in, do your job and leave the drama there:

Work, the one place we spend longer at than in our own bedrooms. If this year has taught me anything, it has showed me that work does not have to be your life, the people you work with aren’t necessarily your friends and at the end of the day.. it’s just a job. Work is stressful sometimes and drama can easily rise up, especially in a tight knit office, it’s best to just leave the drama at work and come home to a safe space.

Exercising really does help your mental health:

I used to dread Winter, as soon as the first leaf fell in Autumn it would send me in to a swift state of depression.. I was quite prone to getting down easily even in the warmer months too. That all changed once I started bootcamp classes which I wrote about above.

Do what you love and love what you do:

Having a fun hobby that makes you happy is everything, whether that be a sport, a place to play games with others, or just hanging out with like minded people. I am lucky to have found two brilliant sports that I love and I love the people in my classes too, they have become more like 2nd and 3rd families to me. If I’ve had a shitty day I can go to pole or aerial class and feel instantly better, I can chat to everyone online and share inspiration and more importantly, it gives me something to focus on and goals for the future. My boyfriend paints Warhammer figurines everyday after work which helps him wind down after a stressful day and I quite enjoy a good painting session too to chill out. I really think having a hobby is something that everyone needs to have.

Have a bloody good Christmas everyone! I’ll see you in the New Year 🙂

xox

 

Before delving into this post, can someone please explain to me why every year goes by faster and faster? I swear it was only 5 mins ago that I was celebrating my 24th in February, now it's only two months until my 25th... and queue my quarter life crisis. It's currently Christmas Eve and I'm… Continue reading Thank you 2018

Film

10 Life Lessons Teen Movies Taught Me:

I am a sucker for a good chick flick, especially ones that came out when I was between the ages of 10-18. From the trials and tribulations of every day teen life, fairy tale re-tellings, cheerleaders winning championships, to Heath Ledger singing through a speaker system.. these films shaped many of our generations, but what sort of life lessons did we received from these classic Teen movies?

Angus things and perfect snogging:

It’s okay to not be what is considered ‘desirable’ in today’s standards, being your fun loving, kind, weirdo self is where it’s at

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Stick it:

Guy best mates can be just as amazing as girl best mates

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Mean Girls:

Revenge isn’t always sweet, it’s always easy to loose yourself in a plot to hurt someone else. You not caring is the best revenge

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Love Wrecked:

Who needs a Rockstar boyfriend when you can date your best mate, they will make you laugh more than any other

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Bring It On!:

Winning by cheating isn’t a good win.. it just makes you a bit of a loser

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A Cinderella Story:

Anything bad in your life can be amended, it just takes the mental strength to carve out a better life for yourself, and ask for help from the people you love

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Easy A:

No-one has to know all your business, it’s nice to keep some of your private life on the down low

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Juno:

The best gift you could ever give someone is your help.. oh, and always wear a condom. AND nerdy boys are the best boys

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10 Things I Hate About You:

Challenge the system, stick to your guns and never bow down to peer pressure

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Clueless:

Use your privilege to make a difference.. even if it’s getting the new girl in school to feel more comfortable like Cher did for Tai

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Aaaaand one for good luck..

She’s the Man:

If you can date Channing Tatum.. always date Channing Tatum

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What’s your favourite teen movie? I’m always on the hunt for new films to watch!

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I am a sucker for a good chick flick, especially ones that came out when I was between the ages of 10-18. From the trials and tribulations of every day teen life, fairy tale re-tellings, cheerleaders winning championships, to Heath Ledger singing through a speaker system.. these films shaped many of our generations, but what… Continue reading 10 Life Lessons Teen Movies Taught Me:

Life

Tips For a Happy Relationship

The other weekend me and my partner had a weekend free to just be with each other and not be the social butterflies we’ve recently turned in to. We went to the cinema to watch Venom (which is really good by the way!), got McDonald’s, then drove to the beach to watch a rain storm over the harbour. For such a simple evening, it turned out to be one of the best dates we’ve ever had, it really solidified how happy we both our in our relationship and how ready we are to make a life for our own next year.

It’s not always been this easy in our past relationships, or even in our current relationship for that matter, but I feel like we have found the right formula to a happy and healthy relationship. So here’s my tips for a long lasting, happy relationship!

Take time to spend separately:

As lovely as it is to see your partner all the time, it is healthy to have some alone time. If your relationship consumes your life then there is no space left for you time, friend time or family time. Also if you spend 24/7 with someone, what the bloody hell do you talk about?!

Be each other’s best friend:

This is a huge one for me as I very much consider my partner to be one of my best friends. If one of you needs some cheering up, be there to comfort them when no-one else can, have a laugh and talk openly like you do with your separate friends, have inside jokes and expressions that only you two know about.

Talk about problems:

Too many relationships fail as people don’t talk about their thoughts and feelings. Understandably it’s sometimes super tough to talk about the problems in our lives and relationships, but it can all be sorted out so quickly if you just take the time to sit down, one on one, and talk everything through. I’m not going to lie, me and my partner have done this a few times when the relationship had hit a sour note or it was more stress than fun. It really helped though and all the tension we were both feeling went away after we had a good heart to heart and cry about everything.

Make an effort:

It’s so easy to get content in a relationship and not put any effort in, we all get caught up in day to day routines. What really helps is making an effort to make the relationship fun and fulfilling for both parties: go watch the film your partner has been raving about for months, if they are feeling ill bring them some tasty cough sweets and a new, warm blanket, make them something truly unique and special for birthdays, do a monthly date night.. the list goes on!

Discuss the future – but don’t rush in to it!:

Once you’ve been in a relationship for a couple of years it’s always a good time to discuss what you want from the relationship in the future. Would you both rather rent or buy a house first? Where would you like to live and when would you like to move out? Is marriage an option? Would you both want to go travelling before settling down? Many questions, but it’s always good to know where you stand.

You don’t have to have the same values, but it helps:

It’s not always a deal breaker. I know couples that have totally different views on a lot of subjects who are stupidly happy, but for me, similar values has always been something I look for in a relationship. In some of my past relationships the different values caused a massive riff and I even got dumped.. twice, for not wanting to get married and have kids young like my boyfriend at the time did (you live and you learn). I’m lucky me and my current partner have similar views on religion, marriage, children, life, pet hates etc. We don’t always agree on some stuff but we’ve figured out a good compromise.

Jealousy needs to disappear:

Another reason why relationships tend to hit the rocks – the dreaded green eyed beast. Everyone gets a tad jealous to an extent, whether that’s from insecurities or envy for what other people have.. it’s inevitable. However it is silly to let insecurities get in the way of a perfectly good relationship, talk to your partner about any doubts, thoughts and feelings you may be experiencing. If your partner is a good person they will try to help you through whatever you are feeling.. if they are purposely trying to make you jealous then get rid, you don’t need that kind of person in your life.

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Overlooking Poole Harbour is a perfect date idea

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The other weekend me and my partner had a weekend free to just be with each other and not be the social butterflies we've recently turned in to. We went to the cinema to watch Venom (which is really good by the way!), got McDonald's, then drove to the beach to watch a rain storm… Continue reading Tips For a Happy Relationship